(BPT) - Key takeaways:
- Sandwich generation caregivers are challenged with care, costs and concerns for two generations simultaneously.
- The stress of caring for someone with Alzheimer's or Parkinson's is at a higher intensity and longer period than other situations, but also brings joy and connection with loved ones.
- Dementia caregivers need professional caregiver help to understand the neurodegeneration and progressive nature of Alzheimer's, Parkinson's and other diseases, and to help with their own burnout.
- Professional in-home caregiver services from Comfort Keepers provides older adults with expert care, helping adult daughters or sons with a trusted partner so they can have breaks, and spend more quality time and make joyful memories with their parent.
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